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writes:Me and my girlfriend have just gotten back together. This is the third time, ever. And I feel as though she's quite boring, we've talked about it several times. And we suggest to hang out more. kiss more, etc... It turns out she doesn't like to kiss with all these people around so she'd rather be alone, which I don't like because I feel like she's ashamed of me. In the rare event that we do kiss its great. But most times when I come in for a kiss she pushes me away, or leans back and she thinks its hilarious. She says she does it because she can, and frankly, I don't get it at all. I set the mood for her in school, or wherever we are yet the results are still the same. She wing return my affections. Also her and I have so little arguments it adds to being boring, and she feels that our relationship is boring too. But I've tried doing more with her, and I get rejected the experience we both want. We say we love each other, and I think maybe its not the time for us to date. And we should stop and try again in the future. Or should I end it indefinitely? What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (19 May 2011):
If you want the truth, I'm not sure she loves you. Certainly she seems to be using you more as a prop, or a convenience, rather than as a boyfriend. I think as you've broken up so much, and as she shows so little physical affection, you'd do better to end it permanently. I think for her to sit there and pull away when you try to kiss her and then say 'she can do it because she can' is cruel, and shows her up a lousy person.
Stop being her prop, and go find a woman who respects you and does love you. Some people just like drama and attention, rather than anything else - your girlfriend is one of them.
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