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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone! Well my boyfriend and I have been going out for just over 2 months. I recently started a TAFE course and there's a guy in it who reminds me so much of my boyfriend, the way he looks, acts and talks. We get along really well and flirt together and tease each other quite a lot (it's all harmless fun). But recently I have developed a bit of a school girl crush on him. I love my boyfriend and would never leave him but I just want to know if it's normal to develop crushes even though you have a boyfriend and love them? Thank you in advance for your help!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (19 May 2011):
Fortunately, it's perfectly normal to develop crushes. There will always be something in another man that you'll like - such as a smile, eyes, a sense of humour, work ethic etc. And this is what you'll have the crush on. You actually have a crush on another guy because he reminds you of your boyfriend, which is a pretty sure sign that your boyfriend is the right one.
Just be careful how much your flirt and tease. Remember that whilst you say it's harmless, your boyfriend might see it as much more. That could harm your relationship, so I'd suggest working a bit harder with your boyfriend.
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