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writes:Hey,About a week ago (tomorrow it will be one week), i broke up with my girlfriend, she is a very free spirited person, and a very independent person, she told me i was being immature, and that i am needy, insecure, possessive, controlling, and that i was going no where in life (mean eh?), but that's not true because i truly treated her like gold.... it's hard to get over her because of her good looks, and because she makes me feel like its all my fault, when really, its mostly hers, but some of mine too... How can i get over her?shes doing things to make me jealous now, like doing things that she did in the past that bothered me, just to get me mad, her friends all say stuff about me and give me smirks etc.ANY help will be GREATLY appreciated..
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reader, Partyboy123 +, writes (20 May 2011):
Partyboy123 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hey,
ive lost 25 lbs due to stress(caused by me and her), and i have been on pins and needles for the past 4 months of the relationship.
i had an MRI last night due to me having sharp pains and abnormally looking ribs (only one side really), im really scared because of all the stress, weight loss, pain in my ribs, and squishy tissues under my ribs.. cancer is also hereditary in my family, so is diabetes.
hopefully everything goes well with the results!
wish me luck friends!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2011): u might hav been being immature at the time, but like i got my gf this saturday and i truly treat her like she is gold/diamond/onyx well. proove you arent all those things, like get ur friend to make a joke about something gross and not laugh and state a comment saying it is not funny AT ALL or something like that, but not all relationships work out (I REALLY WISH THEY DID) so try what i said ask her out and see if she thinks u changed :) im only 13 but i hope i helped
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reader, cute guy  +, writes (20 May 2011):
 She's just a self absorbed little child. ignore these little games she's playing and find someone new. That will really piss her off. Take out another girl. Even if she's not someone you really think a long term committment will come out of it. Just get out there, be positive, stand true that youre a great person with alot to offer and most importantly when you take a girl out, be a good guy, but not too good and just enjoy the company and have fun dating. She will see that you've moved on and all her little tactics haven't paid off. Don't text her and when you run into mutual friends, act like you've never been happier. Girls like her always end up getting burned in the end and at some point wish they had never let someone like you go. Looks will only get her so far.Yes, I know she probably will have no problem finding a date or getting laid, but sooner or later she will grow tired of those guys that just use her and she'll realize what she had with you. Forget her and move on. Don't expect her to come back, but just know in the end, she will regret passing you by with her behavior. I know this type of girl. I've dated them...I've been the guy that they've shacked up with after screwing over a good guy like you and even after that I've burned them back. What comes around goes around and she will be on the receiving end sooner than later I promise
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