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writes:Hi,This is a question for the guys. What does it mean when a guy just wants to get physical with a girl? I don't mean violence. Does it mean he's just after sex?Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2011): It is hypocritical to bash the man for telling the truth about what he wants. Everyone would be bashing the man twice as hard if he was lying to the woman to get what he wants. And people would not be bashing a woman for being honest if she only wants sex from a man. Bashing this man for being honest is just punishing him for not liking this woman as much as she likes him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2011): Yep,yep, "getting physical" is an eloquent way of saying "knockin' da boots with no strings attached". I'm a 31 y.o.female and wouldn't go for such an arrangement myself, but in the guy's defense, at LEAST he had the decency to be completely honest about his intentions. Nothing worse than a guy saying (and briefly demonstrating!) "I love you, let's get married" when he REALLY means "Let's just get physical!"
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (20 May 2011):
 Just SEX.... nothing more....
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2011): Yep, just sex. nothing more. Just love it and leave you. Hes told you plain and simple he wants sex and nothing more. Dont be the one to add another notch to his bed post. He is showing his lack of respect and god knows what little stories he will go back and brag about to his friends. Dont touch him with the proverbil barge pole.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (19 May 2011):
 Yup, he's looking for a sexual relationship. It may not be the only thing he is after but the sex has to come with any relationship there is there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2011): I am not a guy but i would still like to answer this ...Of course that's all he wants, probably not capable of anything emotional and god forbid any commitment of any kind. Keep away from guys like this, they are not good believe me, this type of guy does not know the meaning of respect, all they do is take take take all what they can get, selfish pigs they are!
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reader, Problem.helper +, writes (19 May 2011):
 The word "just" is quite important there. He wants to have sex, no feelings.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (19 May 2011):
It means precisely what it says on the tin - all he wants is sex and that's it. Nothing more.
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reader, chelsea312 +, writes (19 May 2011):
Yeah he's just after sex. There is nothing wrong with this if you are happy with the arrangement. But remember if he is just after sex it makes you question how many other girls he has done this with before and whether he is worth the risk of catching an STI. Just be safe and distance your feelings if you become involved so there is no hardship later on
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