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writes:hi good people please help me here. I've got a boyfriend that i am going out with for seven months now. he does not tell me he loves me not even when i ask him. he is always busy that i only see him twice or once a month. when im with him he is loving and caring. i tried so many times to catch him if he is cheating on me but his phone does not even ring when i am around i cant find anything about what he is doing. he does not say anything about us or that he wants to marry me and this is worrying me a lot. i love him so much and i always make sure he is happy.one of the days i decided to ask him what he think of me he replied he will answer me i must give him some time. i just want to know if its wrong or right to ask this kind of question? more especially to somebody who does not talk about future of the relationship. thank you for taking your time to read and answer me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much good people for helping me, be blessed
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reader, Partyboy123  +, writes (19 May 2011):
 hey,in all honesty, you aren't seeing him enough to actually trust him... it's not your fault at all. how can you trust someone if you can never contact them, and you can only see them once or twice a month?you can either re-evaluate the relationship and move on, or stay with him - but figure it out and see if you are willing to remain unhappyhope i helped, best of luck
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reader, me81  +, writes (19 May 2011):
 Uh oh... I don't really see anything good on this :( I'm sorry... you should not have to feel shame to ask this questions, you have a life and he needs to respect your time, if he is looking to just hangout he should be able to be uo front and tell you this. You guys have been dating for over 7 months you said? well it's a pretty good time to be able to know where this is going. If he wasn't able to answer your question I would suggest you to let him for some time, give him space to realize what he has, if he does, he will find you and chase you, if he doesn't... Hun please give a good guy a chance to win your heart and make you happy :)
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