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writes:So I have been talking to this guy online for a year and we talked for hours, made plans to see eachother, and I was seriously considering going over to him, and now we just don't talk anymore? I don't understand it, I feel like I've wasted so much time and energy on him, for nothing!Should I just forget about him, how can I get over all the time I spent thinking about him, talking to him? Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2011): I had an affair with a guy who i met online, we grew very close, we live in different countries i am British he is American, we met and it was like a dream come true, attraction was very strong so were my feelings, i really really loved him. Anyway it ended quite badly in the end and i really wished it didnt end that way, things got so very messy and frustrating for me emotionally and could not deal with affair any longer but i do think about him alot, i would be lying if i said i didnt think about him. We do not have any contact and have not done for quite some time now. Why do i keep thinking about him? i would never allow myself to be hurt like that again but i cant help what i feel and think. I really really honestly, truly and deeply loved him so much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2011): Sounds to me like you are just a penpal. You should have made a move a loooong time ago if you wanted to make your internet romance blossom into the real world
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2011): Chalk it up to experience. Go and find a guy you can get your hands on, and you will forget about your online guy soon enough.
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