A
female
age
36-40,
*willowbird
writes:Hi everybody, I met this guy about 10-11 months ago. Let's call him D. So D approached me in a coffee shop and we instantly became very good friends. At the time I had just gotten out of a LTR with another woman, and was convinced I wasn't ever going to be with a man again. (I've been in relationships with both men and women.) Throughout these months he propositioned me over and over again. However even though a fierce attraction had been building in me, I would never give in to him. Well until about a month ago, when I finally let my guard down and we had sex. He then later mentioned there was this other girl he had a thing for, and wanted to pursue it. I was crushed to say the least, because I realized I had feelings for D. I avoided him for about a week until he showed up at my door one night. So we've been sleeping together ever since, and I'm frickin in love with this man. Now he says can't lose his freedom and can't commit to me solely. Arrrrrgh, but he says he loves me too. I know better than to make any stupid ulimatums or anything. I'm just hanging on. What should I do? Should I stick around and get my needs met without his commitment? Or break it off and lose my best friend at the same time?
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