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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Right so me and my boyfriend have been together for like seven months now. But before me there was another girl, and he was with her for 3 years. She fucked him over big time, like seriously messed with him emotionally and phsyically. So a few weeks ago she threatened me in the street. I let it go because I'm not a violent person. I have no need to be, he is my man. Well is he? Two weeks ago he came to me crying and thats not like him at all. So i was like sup and he said that hes made a big mistake and that he'd slept with his ex. I asked why and he was like because she's fucked him about emotionally, hes doing it to her. Because she loves him still (apparently) and would do anything for him... so he slept with her to fuck her up basically, make her unstable. Its not like him at all, ive known him forever and its just not his personality. So now I dont know whether to take him back... but im scared one day if we do break up... will he do it to me? Will I be the one he messes with emotionally. Also, the only other problem is his canabis problem, granted he spends alot of time with me but whenever hes with his friends he gets stoned and it really annoys me, but he says I dont understand that hes addicted? How can i really talk to him about it?
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reader, Ignacio ramos +, writes (1 April 2011):
Hell no move on with your life your boyfriend is a crybaby you don't need this drama do your self a faver pack your things get in the car and drive as far away new town new state
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