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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I seem to have that problem when I don’t know wither or not a guy likes me or if he just wants to be mates. I’ve liked this guy that gets on my bus for a month now and we only talk when I say hi and ask him questions. He tends to be interested when I’m telling him something and responds, but never looks me in the eye for longer than a second. Today I asked him if he ever changed his hair style coz i've known him for almost a year. He replied with “why do you want me to change my hair style?”What keeps making me wonder if he doesn’t like me is that he crosses his arms and his feet when were on the bus but if I say his name he reacts faster than a bolt of lightning. He also tends to talk to this other guy that gets on our bus and ignores me so I can understand if he doesn’t like me or if he’s trying to seem uninterested.Also if he does like me should I ask him out or should I leave it and keep dropping hints till he gets the picture?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (31 March 2011):
 If he's a shy guy, you might as well drop all the hints in the world and he won't react. The problem is not you, but he: he doesn't dare to talk. Why aren't you more direct with him?
Please hear me out, because this is one piece of advice I am giving you from the bottom of my heart: Do yourself a favor and don't use hints with anyone. Speak your mind. People aren't mind readers and no one should need to guess what you want. Say what you want, in clear terms, and hopefully you will get it. Or not, but then you won't try in vain.
Do this with everyone, not just shy guys who don't take hints because, well, they are shy.
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