A
female
age
30-35,
*pendy
writes:Why did my ex boyfriend say that? did we do the wrong thing?My ex and I broke up a month ago, he said he didn't want a relationship but later on told me it's cos he fell out of love with me and he didn't want to break my heart that is why he couldn't break up with me.I saw him today for the 1st time since we broke up. We talked and we ended up sleeping together. I know is bad but I loved him and he's the only guy that makes me feel like that. I was not a sexual person but when I got with him everything changed cos we were in love.He said he loved me but he fell out of love the connection went but I still feel it with him.Anyways I told him we can't be friends cos I am still in love with him and I need some time to myself then maybe we can be friends. He says ok cos am a nice person and he still wants us to be friends after everything.Did I do the right thing? He said we shouldn't have slept together cos it has brought back everything..( He said that cos I was really quiet after sex) But am fine, just gotta move on. We're both in our 20'sThanks..xx
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reader, itsallcool +, writes (1 April 2011):
as you seam to be talking to him about this which is a good thing maybe you should tell him that you need some space but you would like to be friends you just need more time to adjust maybe you should ask him how he feels - if he still feels the same? as it might help you get peace of mind.
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