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writes:hi. im so confused about my feelings for my teacher and its really hurting me.i cant bear to not go to school especially when i have him for his subject that day, i cry all the time if i haven't scene him in a couple of days. i look out for him all the time everywhere i goi feel like im on some sort of a high when im with him my tummy does back flips my legs go weak. all i want to do is tell him. but im really confused and kinda scared. i just don't want him to reject me i guess.
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reader, Jo Evelyn +, writes (2 April 2011):
Perhaps you should try your hardest to kind of control your feelings. Do your best to stand out in the best way possible, not just the way you look. What do you know about your teacher and his private life? What's your age difference? You could try and find out little things about him but be very, very, very discreet! Don't put him on pedestal and remember that he is just a man like the rest of the men you meet every day and he too have feelings that can be awakened. It's not a crime to try and become friends with him, but do take this slowly and try not to act on an impulse - it's too early to let him know how you feel about him. Give yourself time and above all - respect yourself and don't be ashamed of your feelings. Ask him friendly questions about how he's going to spend the holidays, etc. I hope this helps at least a little bit. Learn how to be patient, miracles happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2011): Hun, Don't do it please! I too am "in love" with my ex-teacher but please don't tell well at least until you are 18 and legal! He cant act on it! Hold it off for a few years and maybe then you will look back and be glad that you didn't tell him.
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reader, rachel aniston  +, writes (1 April 2011):
 ya its me in the guest answer
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reader, pink90 +, writes (1 April 2011):
 Don't Tell Him, it could ruin everything, as he wont feel the same and you wont be able to look at him ever again!
it is hard, I should know as I have a crush on my male lecturer, but we are more like close friends, i too find it difficult if he isn't around and I think he knows as he is constantly winding me up by hugging other girls... (even though his hugs are the best!)because he knows I get really jealous and end up yelling at him.... but he loves women telling him what to do!
Try and find a guy your own age, your still at school so you have plenty of time you don't need to rush... it will happen one day... :)
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reader, JenL  +, writes (1 April 2011):
 i don't think it is a good idea to tell him either because what if he doesn't have any feeling for you? in that case it will only make the situation awkward and he might even try to avoid you in the future.....don't get me wrong, i'm not against students having crush on their teachers. in fact, i find myself crazily in love with one of my professor. i always look around for him everywhere i go just like you do, and i try to take as many classes with him as i can, but i avoid staring at him all the time. i don't want him to suspect anything or to know that i have a crush on him because i don't want to mess things up. i know for sure if he knows that i like him, he'll avoid me because he is a married man with 2 daughters and twice my age
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2011): He is a teacher, you are a student. I dont think that it would be a good idea to tell him how you feel, as this may ruin your friendship with this teacher. But you could also get hurt and he may end up loosing his job. I know it's hard to get over someone who you have strong feelings for, try talking to guys your own age and you may get over him. If you're really finding it hard to get over him, try talking to a close friend about it :)good luck and i really hope you take my advice :) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2011): i know how you feel and even tho im no long in schoolwhen i was in school i fancied a teacheri know how hard it is because you see them around the schooland hear other class mates talk about him so it pretty hard to get the space you need to get over him and it makes you think about him.but i dont advice you don't tell him how you feel this will only make and odd situation he cant say yes the love you have as it is forbidden and your only get hurt and he will have to then like be careful or what he says and how he acts around you so hes not miss-leading you in anywaymaybe it would help if you talked to a class mate you trustabout it i found it helpful talking to my friend i was a outlet for my feelings. if your wondering i my self never told the teacher and i got over him as soon as i left school.
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reader, daniiiiii +, writes (31 March 2011):
Lets be realistic. I don't think you should tell him! it will ruin everything!he could loose his job and I don't think he would what that! you're young and beautiful, find someone your own age! I know it's hard to get over someone you fancy, but tell yourself nothing good will come of it if you share your feelings!
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