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Confused that BF interrupted love making to use bathroom.

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Question - (31 March 2011) 11 Answers - (Newest, 4 April 2011)
A female Ireland age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Can someone explain this to me? Woke up when the alarm went off this morning, bf of 7 months was kissing my neck...so we ended up having sex, and kinda half way through, he stops and says "gotta go, baby"...I was like, "go where?" and he jumps out of bed saying he needs a pee. Comes back, still has an erection, but gets on with getting dressed and ready for work. Had little time to spare before leaving the house, but gave me a kiss before he left and told me he loves me. Other than this, everything is going great. But I've never had this happen to me before - do guys often stop having intercourse because they need to pee??? Thanks :)

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (4 April 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony aunti've seen errect men pee.... it can be done

when I wake in the morning and i'm in the mood.. PEEING comes first for all involved...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2011):

When you gotta go, you gotta go!

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (31 March 2011):

Honeypie agony auntIf you guys just woke up, I say it's VERY possible that the poor guy just needed to go pee.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2011):

It is absolutely possible to pee while erect, just difficult to aim. Men pee with boners or morning wood all the time.

It is not possible to pee while ejaculating. People are confusing erection with ejaculation.

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A male reader, honestman Mexico +, writes (31 March 2011):

Most of the times, when I'm having intercourse, I got a very high urges to go to pee.

My girlfriend gets upset... but she has to understand.

Men are different, and some of us need to pee or else we'll cum very quickly!

We'll never pee inside you, even if we do get to cum .

Just have patience with him!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2011):

Actually I can pee while erect, it's very awkward and you have to be kind of acrobatic but it can be done and that has happened to me. I didn't realize how badly I needed to pee until I felt the pressure on my bladder when having sex. The motion of the sex then makes it much more difficult.

He might have just went out to wash himself off aswell. It's possible he used to pee excuse so as not to be late for work. That way there's not chance of you convincing him to stay longer. Otherwise he could have just continued having sex after his pee.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2011):

It is physically possible to pee whilst having an erection as it has happened to me a few times, but i got straight back to the loving after peeing. Yes its hard to pee wiv an erection so I had to hold tight to stop the blood rush to get it soft enough to pee into the toilet rather than straight up onto the cieling.

basically what i am saying is that he may have genuinly needed to go a pee and was running short on time to continue. the only way yer gonna find out is to ask him why.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2011):

The scenario you describe has only happened to me when the guy was trashed...but I doubt this guy decided to get drunk at 7 am.

However, it could just be that the guy isn't into morning sex. This has also happened to me. Sex wears some men out and leaves them feeling sleepy (that's what they've told me anyway) Some men don't like getting "distracted" or worn out right before a day's work. They might engage partially, or engage just enough to get you off, but then they don't want to get off themselves.

This has happened to me...but he explained it, he didn't use the bathroom as an excuse. Maybe have a heart to heart about it? It doesn't sound like a big deal, I wouldn't take it personally or a reflection of your performance in bed.

A guy yesterday had a similar problem regarding his girlfriend taking a bathroom break. I feel like you two might be kindred spirits: www.dearcupid.org/question/women--ever-had-an-orgasm-when-you.html

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2011):

sometimes when i cum it feels like i need to take a leak. ive never left during sex. and i have never peed in a girl. maybe he is weird and he has to rub one out himself.

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A male reader, rockshredder United States +, writes (31 March 2011):

rockshredder agony auntYes. Only when you do right after you wake up in the morning. At that time. the bladder is full. And it is not a good idea to have sex right after you wake up. It can damage the penis as the urine pressure is there and you are trying to have an intercourse. He should first get up and pee. And then move towards sex.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (31 March 2011):

person12345 agony auntIt's pretty much physically impossible to pee while fully hard. It sounds like he ran out of time or something and finished himself off for some reason? Unless this is a frequent occurrence it's probably nothing.

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