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writes:Is it normal for 2 grown men (early 40's) to sleep in the same bed? What if they were watching a movie and due to the late hour had simply fallen asleep? Is it normal for grown men to lay on the same bed watching a movie together in the first place? What if there were no other place to watch a movie besides the room that did not contain a sofa, but a bed instead?Weird? Not weird? Why, why not?Thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, Adorskable  +, writes (1 April 2011):
 I don't find it weird, I think that society does not let us see men in certain kind of situation without people classifying them as gay. As if it were two females in the same situation the question wouldn't even been brought up, because this would be acceptable.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (31 March 2011):
 It's not weird...
...unless they were both naked and watching porn!
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reader, maverick494 +, writes (31 March 2011):
Short answer: no, that's not weird.
Long answer:
I think the reason you ask proves that today's society is very strained when it comes to what's socially acceptable. We all like to think we're free thinkers but in ' conservative' countries where being gay for an instance is forbidden, people exhibit behavior that would be branded gay in our country. Hell, just two men falling asleep against eachother in a bus is enough to garner chuckles and gossip these days.
What you described is something i often do with friends of mine. I don't find it weird and neither do they. Loosen up! Or is there another reason you're asking this?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (31 March 2011):
 I don't see how that's anyones business. If you feel uncomfortable with it then don't do it. Other than that who cares. It's not anyones business if two guys feel comfortable enough with each other to share a bed. If someone cares then they have too much time on their hands.
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