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male
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30-35,
*3puremage1
writes:i am not sure shall i disconnect from a really good female friend of mine. We only started to know each other about a year ago even though we have been at the same school for 5 years already.Our relationship is between love and friendship since she has stated she doesn't want to lose me as a friend when she was in a relationship with a guy who used her as a temporary girlfriend. I was the only one who warned her that and she did appreciate my help when they broke up. About a year ago, she had invited me alone to have dinner with her family. That is the most memorable memory since it touches my feelings. But she does not love me. I still love her. She knows it.Right now, we started to talk t each other more and I do give complements to her since I love her and she knows me very well. I had tried to forget her but I never able to control my feelings toward her. It is weird. I had tried to ask her to go to the end of year prom with me but her excuse is she had promised to go with her friends instead of me. Sometimes I wonder how important I am in her heart. I love her but shall I disconnect from her?
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reader, SlightlyLost +, writes (6 April 2011):
She is not going to change and even if she seems too its unlikely that she will ever feel the way about you that you do about her. I know its blunt but try please try to move on
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2011): Move on my friend. I was in a similar situation. Try and find someone else capable of making you forget her. Someone does exist for you alone.
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