A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:How do i get the spark back? Me and my partner have been together a year. I am quite confident, opinionated and bossy were as he is shy, quiet and passive in arguments etc. I think i must intimidate him as we hardly have sex anymore because i never feel sexy or he never takes control.I try to explain but he keeps his thoughts to himself and never tries anything. I'm going insane as we are young and should be all over each other but we hardly seem attracted to each other at all and are just happy plodding along like best friends. I feel we are missing out on an key element of our relationship even if it isn't the be all and end all.We have tried watching porn together and cheeky under and nights away but nothing really reignites the spark.Help!
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (31 March 2011):
 Time for a vacation. There's lots of ways to get away and get a change of scenery. Even if you have a tight budget, you could visit relatives in another place, or housesit for someone else. If you DO have the means, then splurge on a weekend or short trip away from home. A little R&R and a new location might be just the boost that you need. Good Luck and have a great time...
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