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anonymous
writes:omg u guys. The girl I wuz in a relationship with broke up with me last month because she said that she didnt know if she wanted a serious relationship right now. That's fine 6ut now she tell me she still tells me she wants to be just friends for now. We txt almost. Everyday and today she told me she gets frustraed because I ask too many questions. If she doesn talk back or ask anything of her own how do i get her to talk to me. I just miss her so much and I don't know if she'll ever wanna be with me again. How do I find out without making it obvious.
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reader, hoodstar +, writes (23 May 2010):
Don't be friends with a girl you (still) want to smash. Thats a sign of weakness in her eyes. Your willing to be friends with a girl you still love while she is sleeping with tom, john and billy? smh
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (23 May 2010):
 You can't stay "just friends " with her if basically you are still in love with her and want her back.
The "just friends " thing can only work after a while when both parties have overcome any romantic feelings.
You should protect your pride and your heart- and cut any contact with her.
If she finds out she misses you, she will be back in a short time. If she does not, then it will be easier for you moving on without the weight of this so-called friendship.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (23 May 2010):
 Don't be too clingy to her. It can be a big turn off. Take it slow and easy.
Take up some interesting hobbies or activities so that you won't be so fixated on her.
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reader, Aussiemum  +, writes (23 May 2010):
Im sorry to say, if she broke up with you then chances are there will be no re-union. Its your heart on the line. Its all very well for her to want to be friends, but you want more and unless you think you can handle being friends with her under HER terms...then I would seriously reconsider. I have recently broken up with someone, they 'offered' to be friends but you know.....second best isnt good enough for me...its all or nothing. If she dated you and knew what type of guy you were and got to know all your good qualities..and still made the decision to leave you...then why should she still have you 'on call'. Let her miss you. Good luck!
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