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*r.Hottie
writes:hey guys,i want some suggestions from you all, i don't know why? but i can't control my feelings for my cousin, I've tried allot to make her realize that how much i care for her but she never considered me, shes of 27 n em just of 20, another thing that she is already in love with someone else, which just kills me, but i swear! i don't want that she breaks up with him, and have relation with me, nor i want to marry her, i don't want to spoil her life, i just don't want to hurt her, but the thing i want is just her attention, i want her to love me even just for a single moment, i just swear i want her to love me with all her pure feelings, just once! i'll spend my whole life with that one beautiful moment. what should i do guys, please help me!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, Mr.Hottie +, writes (25 May 2010):
Mr.Hottie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno no no guys, i do not want to have sex with her nor I've ever think about such stuff, all I've ever wanted is, to make her realize how much i love her, well just let it go guys, may be i was wrong, how i just couldn't understand the reasons the factors by which we are apart, i should have considered them, but that time i just wasn't in ma senses, i was furious and possessive, it was so stupid of me!!! i don't know what was that, a love? affection? or an infatuation? but the thing i know is, she was the first person who just make my heart beat so fast and the first one in this whole wide world whom i've ever cared for, well i guess dreams are just set to be broken!!!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (24 May 2010):
 Forget for a sec the fact that you and her are cousins -which is not irrelevant , but let's pretend she is not your cousin.
So ? does it get any better ?.. No, because she is 7 years older than you AND she is in love with somebody else.
What makes you think you could have a chance with her, even if you declare her your passion ? How many chances are there she would be intrigued or curious or moved ?
Much more probably, she would be mightly annoyed and embarassed and would cut any contact with you.
Your yearning for a moment of exotic passion is like a 13 years boy madly in love with Lady Gaga. It won't happen,period. And since you are out of your teen years, it starts being a bit disquieting,too. Get a grip and start asking out less exotic and more attainable girls.
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reader, laetitia  +, writes (24 May 2010):
 What do you mean by "one exotic moment"? Do you mean you want to make out, have sex? That could creep her out.
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reader, Mr.Hottie +, writes (24 May 2010):
Mr.Hottie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you Lindy and Laetitia for your helpful suggestions, i am very grateful to you both for this, but can't i just have her for a single moment, i want to love her, want to show her that how much i care, all i want is a one exotic moment in her arms! nothing else swear.
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reader, LLindy87  +, writes (23 May 2010):
 this is not uncommon, i've seen questions like this before but its something you must realize isn't super common either. I know i just contradicted myself, but its how it is. I feel like you must realize that she doesn't feel the same way and for you to try with all your might to move on and find someone you are not related to. Good luck.
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reader, laetitia +, writes (23 May 2010):
Sounds like an unhealthy obsession with the wrong person. I think you need to get out and explore the girls at your school and community outside of your family.
You need to realize that what you're doing is wrong and stop it.
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