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writes:hey dear friends..... i just need your help out here...m a 17year old female m a really lively person always laughing joking n serious as well i dont like hurting people...the thing is like till now i was reli fine with all this i mean there are my friends who doesnt take my emotions seriously they think m a person who will b fine and will not be so much hurt....with there act they make fun joke around still m fine with it ....i m not understanding what m i suppose to do....i feel i have no own image.....as in i feel like people just think i am sum kinda joki person as i m not like that i m emotive as welli just dont show how i feel i still laugh n care n think that no its fine let it go later on people will understand me but that never happens....how should i treat my friends to understand me .....by all this i dont know am geting kind of frustrated....i never use to get fed up now i m geting fed up slowly slowlytoday itself in the university i have taken the frustation on a friend who doesnt understand still it doesnt make any differnce to her she is oppositly avaoiding me......in this case what m i suppose to do y am i geting frustrated y am i loosing my patience........why cant i control like before what should i do....????please help me out m relly tensed with all this...
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reader, cmander  +, writes (24 May 2010):
you can't control your frustration like you used to because i think you have reached your limit of patience.
have you tried talking to all your friends that you do have feelings that can be hurt?that you may laugh and joke and be happy but that doesnt mean that your feelings don't get hurt the same as thiers can?
maybe you could talk to your closest friend first and once he/she understands and gets your point of view he/she could help you talk to everyone else?
talk to them SOON before your patience runs out and you may find you take it out on someone who is innocent because you did'nt explain to them how you feel etc...
all the best, good luck and hope i helped
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