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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (25 May 2010):
 yes although not all people do, it came happen the first few times penatration occurs, if it happens after say 4 or 5 times then this is time to be concerned, also make sure as you are still young and new to sexual activity make sure the boy you are with is been carful
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (25 May 2010):
 Tell your guy also that the best sensations for you isn't to insert his finger way up your vagina. Show him where your clitoris is...and for heaven's sake be GENTLE! LOL
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok well thank you! hopefully thats it....but can it happen more than once???
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (24 May 2010):
popping your cherry is the first time something is incerted inside you the hymen which is something inside your vargina a small layer of skin is popped or broken and this can cause a small bleed. This is totally normal and nothing to be concerned about
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionand i know it wasnt my period....what is popping my cherry and can it happen more than once???
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes this was the first time i have ever done anything...
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (23 May 2010):
 you may have popped your cherry if this is the first time you had sexual contact with someone, or even one of the first times. Tell him to be more gentle. Perhaps you got your period?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2010): Owwww!! Make him be more gentle
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2010): you may have broken your hymen.
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (23 May 2010):
can i ask you if this was the first time you have had this kind of sexual contact?
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reader, YouWish +, writes (23 May 2010):
Yikes! Is he fingering you with a jackhammer? :P
Okay, if it's not your time of month, than he's being way too abrasive with you. He needs to realize that he should handle a woman like he's handling a bubble he doesn't want to break. Some KY jelly on his fingers might help too, but he can't finger you like he's digging quarters out of his back pocket.
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