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writes:See I'm not one of those typical people to ask these questions, and i'm extremely nevous, so that is why I am asking: 'Is it possible that my teacher may be in love with me?' btw- I am 16 and he is 30ishMy teacher once stopped a whole lesson and looked at me and told me i had 'beautiful eyes.' Everytime im in class he looks me long in the eyes until he finds a distraction. I sometimes sit in his class for revision and he told me: 'You are really pretty, you do realise this don't you?' When i was in one of those revision lesson with him on my own, he held my face in the palm of his hands. (i did not take it too personally as he is known as a joker)Before I was once looking for him, asking him for a question, however he had no time. So i joked that he was trying to avoid me. He then held my head, in a friendly headlock and told me that he couldnt possibly avoid me.When I asked him if he was going to miss our class when we leave school, he answered 'not really, but i am going to miss you.' He seems pretty intrigued in my life, and he is amazed at my intellect. (A+ student) I find it all very flattering, but somehow weird because i have never viewed myslef as someone associated with beauty.
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reader, cindy 15 +, writes (25 May 2010):
 well to tell you the honest truth of how i will take this is this teacher is a little too friendly with u
at the same time this teacher may be a perv or just being friendly i say just act like nothin has happen and see wat he does but be aware.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2010): Hi thereBecause i'm not there to view the situation I can't draw a tight conclusion. From the information you have given it seems like he may very well have inappropriate feelings for you. There are certain rules that teachers have to follow and he isn't following them. Yes sometimes they do slip up, but this man has done it multiple times. If he continues with irrational behaviour eg; touching, complimenting your looks- you should report it. I realise this may be hard because he might be a very nice person but from my experience-If he had true feelings for you and honestly was falling in love with you, he would have it bottled up and be trying to make it unnoticable. It's just something they do. He wouldn't be approaching you like he is, touching etc...this man may want something 'more' and by 'more' i mean taboo.Be careful if you do report him because if you've taken simple behaviour out of proportion you could get him into a lot of trouble. And if he continues to make advances on you, although what you've mentioned doesn't seem TOO extreme- if they progress you should report him.Goodluck and I hope you can draw a conclusion from what i've said because as I said before, i'm not there to see what's going on so I could be wrong. ~Tevote
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2010): the guy is a freak show. creep. all of the above. get out and get out fast. a girl at my school had almost the same things told to her and the teacher started stalking her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2010): From the way you described his actions, it is possible that he has feelings for you. He seems to favor you. I've been in the same situation before, thinking my teacher was in love with me. Anyway, the part where you said he stopped his lesson to say that you have beautiful eyes was highly inappropriate. I think you should talk to him. If you feel uncomfortable with him complimenting you or touching you, then you have the right to tell someone or tell him to stop.
Do you love him?
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