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writes:my boyfriend dumped me, and didn't make an effort to contact me afterwards despite saying he wanted to remain friends. i ran into some of his friends at a bar we frequent about a week after the break-up, and they asked me what happened, because my ex told them nothing. i told them everything that happened cause i was still quite upset by the whole thing and didn't really understand why i was dumped, my ex gave me no explanation. i'd already been crying for a week and a half cause of him. his friends agreed with me in the situation, and thought it was wrong of their friend to not even discuss any problems he thought we were having with me, and then dumping me by text. his friends brought it up to my ex, and one of them made some harsh comments to him cause he thought it a low move to dump me by text.well now my ex isn't talking to his friend who he's known for 2 and a half years, and i feel terrible, like it's all my fault. i tried talking to my ex on msn and he just yelled at me and made me feel horrible. he's still not talking to me, or his friend. his friend says he doesn't care cause my ex would often ignore me when we were together, and he thought that was very wrong of him and that he treated me poorly. but i still feel bad, and i'm not sure what i'm supposed to do. i don't care about talking to my ex anymore i just want him and his friend to be okay...what should i do?
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (23 May 2010):
 You honestly should just leave it alone. They're presumably adults? Let them sort their own problems out without any help or interference from you. I wouldn't feel too guilty either, you've already had your share of toxic emotions. Just leave it be and do the no contact thing with your ex for now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2010): have a setup between them make them talk to each other and become friends again
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