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How do I catch him out?

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Question - (27 October 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and his friend went out clubbing one night last week. My boyfriends friend told his girlfriend that my boyfriend brought a girl back to the flat and they slept in living room all night. He doesn't know if something went on. The girlfriend told me but i'm in position where I can't say anything. What should i do to catch him out? HELP.

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A female reader, superdopah United Kingdom +, writes (27 October 2007):

i wouldnt care who i promised to keep my mouth shut they cant expect you to im surprised your havent confronted him and kicked his arse into touch already, because lets face it he didnt bring her home to watch telly and just sleep. sorry if i sound harsh but come on maybe you are in denial a bit but now you know there is no going back and you are definetley worth more then a cheat!

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (27 October 2007):

kenny agony auntPersonally i think all three of them know what went on that night and thay are consealing what really happened from you. Why are you in a position where you can't say anything?. I think that you have got every right to say something, you deserve to know the truth, not that he would tell you the truth if you asked him. I think your guy was bang out of order sleeping with a girl in that lounge, he has betrayed your trust, because i feel you are never going know for sure what really happened. Personally if it were me i would seriously consider walking away from this relationship, and find a guy that does not bring stray girls back to peoples flats.

Take care & good luck x

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