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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:so i have been dating this guy for about 9 months and everything was going great....he and i both agreed that we didnt want anything too serious at the moment but we wanted to be with each other....but recently he is trying to break up with me cuz he said that he doesnt see our relationship going anywhere...i tried to explain to him that you just cant expect anything to come from a relationship especially when we both in the first place based our relationship off of the request to keep it simple and go with the flow and not look too much into it or the future....and that he also asked for nothin serious...but i really like this guy infact i know that i love him (not in love w/ him but i care deeply enough to feel comfortable saying that i do love him) and i really want to be w/ him i dont just want to give up on us just cuz he is reading into something he said he didnt want to read into.....what should i do? how can i go about keeping him? or should i just move on? i have always been the kind of person that if a guy doesnt want to be w/ me than ok it was always easy for me to let go but this one played a reverse role on me i started this relationship with him not wanting to get too serious and now its hard to leave in other relationships i started them trying to have a serious relationship and i was always disconnected from the actual person i was dating and not really into the relationship.....so what does that mean? if anyone can help i would appreciate it....
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reader, xLamentedxAmourx +, writes (27 October 2007):
 Well you are into this guy now. If you feel up to it, maybe ask him if he does want to move up a notch? Maybe spice things up? Or. if you do not want to go any further, than I would give up. If he wants to be a facktard, then let him. You can find someone else that will respect that you do not want to get too deep.
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