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writes:few months ago, I met this amazing guy. we chat everyday and met couple times, shortly I fell in love with him. but unfortunately, I found out that he's still in a relationship with other girl and just broke up 4 days before I know about their relationship. Until now, he said that he couldn't forget her and still in love with her. what makes me confuse is, he kept seeing me and call me everyday, he said that he is interested with me but he is not in love with me yet. I tried to avoid him, but I found it hard. more hard I tried to, then more I love him and miss him. What should I do then? Is he the one? Is he meant for me or what? could you please help me....coz this feeling torches me...
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): he is tryin to have his cake and eat it tooo
huney just try to b strongggg and move on its the best for you
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reader, Oblivia  +, writes (27 October 2007):
 Oh, I'm sorry, this must hurt a lot. I think he likes you but is not yet ready to go into a new relationship just yet. You met too early probably. Four days are usually not a good enough time period to get over a past relationship no matter whether it was good or bad for him.
My advice would be for you to step back a little to give him some time to sort his mind and heart out about his previous relationship. If you get into something right away the chances are big that it will be very hard for you and you will be very heartbroken anyways.
Take care of your heart!
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (27 October 2007):
 It could be that this man does like you but he is holding back some because of his feelings for the other girl. He does need time to work through his feelings and if the two of you get together too quickly you'll never know if you were the rebound or if he really likes you. Give him some space and time to sort out his feelings. Your relationship will be stronger for it.
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