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writes:i really would like to know as to how i can have sex after marriage. there are different styles of having sex this days however what are the right ways or styles of sex that are accepted for a christian couple to practise. please i need any respond and advises thankyoui want to know as to how a husband can fully make her wife satisfy herself when they have sex because sometimes only man satisfy themselves while woman to dont? are there any ways that a husband can focus more on to so both man and women feel the enjoyment of sex?
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (28 October 2007):
 In my opinion, there is no such thing as Christan sex, or non-Christian sex, as long as we're talking about sex between a man and woman who are married. God intended for a husband and wife to enjoy each other, even sexually. If you have a rich, fulfilling sexual relationship withint your marriage, you'll be less likely to be tempted by people and activities outside your marriage. I think the things of perversion would be having sex with animals (an abomination) or homosexual sex (sorry guys, but it's in the Bible too, as an abonimation to God) and of course, adultry (sex outside of the marriage). Everything else is fair game. I think God expects married couples to indulge and enjoy each other and not to set boundaries about positions or toys, or saying no to oral sex. It's all good. Though he might frown on pornography, because you are then bringing other people (so to speak) into your bedroom, into your minds and that could yield the wrong kind of temptation down the road. Good luck and have fun with each other!!
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reader, xLamentedxAmourx  +, writes (27 October 2007):
 There are endless ways people can have sex. It does not matter what religion, just what you are BOTH into.
For example, she might randomly like being tied up, hanging upside down, tea bagged, and getting anally screwed wile getting candle wax dripped on her vagina. You know? Endless, completely endless. You just need to ask what she likes, and if she is a virgin, start with missionary. Soft core type stuff.
Now that is extremely easy. All you got to do is not cum and keep going. When you are about to cum, just slow down, almost way down. But do not stop, just slow it down until the feeling gos away, then continue. Wile you are having sex, you can also play with her clit. Maybe she will do it for you. As for both enjoying the sex, no offense dude, but you will enjoy it no matter what. Just make sure she can orgasum as much as possible before you do. Put the womans pleasure needs in front of your own. You do not even have to use your penis. Eat her out, finger her, just make sure she is satisfied.
Just see what she is into, know what you are into, and have fun! Make sure she is COMPLEATLY satisfied before you cum.
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