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writes:hi,my friends tell me all the time that they masturbate and that its really nice adn we also discuss there relationship with boys like which boys made them cum the fastest and who was the best and fingering and other things but i have never had an orgasm and that includes myself and anybody else who has triedi dont no if im weird or not but i have tried, but i cant make any thin happen, it doesnt even feel particually nice and at first i thought it was just me doing smethin wrong but every boy i have ever had (wich r sometimes recommended by my friends as "good") do absolutely nothin for me and sometimes they are so determined that i end up faking so they dont get anoyed!!!i am stil a virgin but im worried that will be just as "non thrilling"is there something wrong with me???plz hlp thnxxx xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2007): 'Ever boy I've ever had..'? Blimey, you don't waste any time do you? It will be highly unlikely that you'll be able to orgasm with these men who have been 'recomended to you'. Because it is all down to chemistry. One man mght be great for your friend and do nothing for you. However, I started having sex at 18, slept with 4 different men who did nothing for me, and then finally, at the ripe old age of 28, had my first orgasm. I dont think it was his technique, it was the relationship that did it for me (that and a few fantasies about being a babysitter...I know, but whatever floats your boat!). And now, when we have sex I have at least 4 orgasms each time. When you are in a committed relationship, with the right person, who has the right chemistry for YOU, then it really does all come together. Trust me babe, I also thought I could never have an orgasm, and I could fake with the best of them (of the screaming!!) but with the right person, love and patience, it will be wonderful for you. Best of luck X
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reader, xoxAnonymous +, writes (27 October 2007):
 Well To Be Honest Nor have i And Im The Same Age As You. Let Your Friends Talk About It. So What You Can Be Different And Except That You Haven't. :) Be Happy x
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reader, JaffaZ  +, writes (27 October 2007):
 Nah, there's nothing wrong with you. Personally, I've never had an orgasm either (that I know of...), and I'm not a virgin. Also, I've read that it takes a lot longer for girls to have one than for guys. Some girls are never able to. I think that if you really want one, find someone or something that is able to give you pleasure. Then keep it up for a long time, because it may take a while...
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reader, superdopah +, writes (27 October 2007):
you are still really young and your friends could be lying to sound good which a lot of young people do! i wouldnt even be slightley bothered by this as you have many years ahead of you to experince an orgasm, also maybe its because you are not completely relaxed with the boy, or because you arent in love, sex or sexual contact is always better when you have feelings for someone. besides wouldnt you rather be with a boy that your friends havent been with?
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reader, Emzy1591 +, writes (27 October 2007):
 Youre too young to be worrying about this kind of thing. Youre probably not cumming because ur body isnt ready for sex of any kind. Wait until you're older to be worrying and discussing these things!!
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