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female
age
36-40,
*asodistic Candy
writes:Alright, how to makes this short...I love two men.Man one I have been with for almost a year and a half and was engaged to for a week. But a big problem, he's cheated on me and he lies...ALOT! But he's stopped lying to me... I think.Man two I'd had a crush on for two years and when we finally hung out outside of school, we discovered just how beautifully mutual our feelsings were for each other.I cheated on my boyfriend, but told him about it. I continued seeing them both (letting them both be aware) on and off for about 3-4 months. I finally settled back with Man One and stayed friends with Man two.Well, recently my feelings for man two have returned tenfold. I think we would be better together, but my boyfriend loves me so much and we live together. I dont know what to do. I love them both, but i don't think I'm "in love" with my boyfriend anymore. All we do is argue.What should I do?Please, please... any advice would be extremely appreciated.
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reader, Oblivia  +, writes (27 October 2007):
 Hi,
I think that you should move out and live on your own. Then you date the one/ones you like until you are ready to settle your mind about what you are looking for in a man. Even if you would come to the conclusion that you like Man One most, you can still go out with him even though you are not living together. It will enable you to get a more independent perspective on your situation.
Best wishes!
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