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writes:ive been talking to this guy on AIM for over 3 months now. we seem to click realy well and usualy end up chatting for about half an hour too an hour most days. its usualy him that starts the conversation. the thing is he hasnt never asked to see a photo of me and hasnt hinted that he might want to meat soon because we only live about 15 minutes away from eachother. how can i hint at that i would like to meat him/get him to be intersted in meating with me. Reply to this Question
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (8 November 2007):
 If you are getting vibes that he might be interested in meeting you in person then just ask him. Use a phrase like we have been talking a good while and it seems like we already have so much in common. Would you perhaps like to meet? Don't agree to meet up and leave in a vehicle with this person until you know them much better and that they are safe.
If the guy wants to meet you do so but please be cautious. Not everyone is who they say and sometimes they will lie even about their their age, job, sex or status. For that first few meetings especially at your age DON"T go alone. Take a trusted adult with you. Meet in a public place so you can be noticed. Let it be well lit and lots of traffic. If you feel uneasy after you meet then you should end the conversation quickly and leave. Be careful that you are not followed.
Never give your real name, address or telephone number to someone you meet on the internet unless you already know that they are ok and can be trusted. Don't give out other important information such as family members or work places , etc. The internet can be a fun place to meet and you can meet many nice people there. Just be safe and act with caution.
God bless you and help you to be safe in your meetings.
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reader, elliebellie  +, writes (27 October 2007):
i agree with wat the person above sed... say summing like weve been speaking for so loong y dont we meet up. when u do meet up with him though make sure u have a friend there even if he cant see her/him make sure a friend is there watching u in case this guy isnt wat he seems. hope it goes well
ellie
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2007): The thing that is so easy about internet chatting is that you dont have to talk in person. That way you can say something like " hey we have so much in common, why dont we meet up?" but be CAREFUL this guy may not be who he says he is, so always meet with a trusted adult or group of friends, in a well-lit public place the first time you see him. take care, i hope it goes well. x
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