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writes: Im 47 just divorced and fall into with a man 18 years older than me. 18 months on seeing each other I start to find him too old I dont no how to end it and worry cant find someone else after leaving him I dont no what to do
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2007): I've met a man I love. We get on well. The problem is he is very mean with money. He doesnt like eating out or going on holidays. We end up always doing the same things going to the same places so he doesnt have to spend much or no need to spend at all. I am starting to feel fed up with it. I know he is not going to change the way he spends his money. I do want to end it sometimes but not sure.
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reader, helensmith +, writes (29 October 2007):
Dear friend,
Obviously you are not interested in him any longer after you are familiar with him. Age, i.e. old is not the point or you won't have the relationship for 18 months. Seems that man is not the partner you really want. So you should apparently break up with him and find your dream match. Why don't think you will find anyone else? I have found an older man who is 10 years older than me on agelessonly.com. And we are very happy for nearly two years and we decide to marry. Don't you think it should be over immediately?
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reader, kutie0712 +, writes (28 October 2007):
If it isnt working with him you should break up with him. You will find someone. There is someone out there for everyone you just need to be patient you will find someone
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reader, Richard_EMids +, writes (27 October 2007):
Hi there. It would help if you can give some more information - about you - about him - about your sitution - about your reasons. Why don't think you will find anyone else? Against the present question I can only think of advising you to tell him it's over!
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