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36-40,
*eforu
writes:Ok so i posted a question early about how i like my lesbian friend and she says she wants just friendship......Well here recently it has gotten ten times worse everytime we are around each other drinking hanging out or just chilling like me and her....its long eye contact and she ends up in my face i told my friends what was going on and they said no shes just flirty thats just her personality well finally this girl has gotten enough guts to be all over me in front of everyone and starts grabbing my hand and stroking my arm and getting in my face..... i cant describe my feelings for her they run way to deep like i have never felt anything like this ever before and it honestly scares me a little..... i love everything about her and we can sit and conversate for hours on top of hours and just have a good time and its like no one else exists around us....finally my friends noticed that its something more than just her flirty personality when shes around me.....both of them said that when shes around me her tone changes and shes in my face and that they havent seen her act like this before with anyone....my best friend who is also her roommate is terrified that if something happens it will hurt our friendship as well as mine and this girls....i cant consider either of them not being in my life so thats out of the question if anything were to happen and ended up badly i would stil have to talk to them im comfortable with that and i know this girl wouldnt quit talking to me either shes not like that....her roommate decided to confront the issue at hand here and asked her if she liked me and she said she couldnt answer that because when she first met me she called me a friend and thats why she doesnt want to go back on this statement....she tells her i dont know i just i dont know but im in love with her personality?....what does that mean really?..what do i do.....i cant handle this!I am at a loss of what to do here If she loves my personality isnt that me? and when shes in my face! it took every ounce of energy i have to not just kiss her like i want to im crazy about her and i cant help but think shes running from her feelings because shes scared of getting hurt but if its that strong between us how can u fight it she cant run forever and i cant handle her running towards me i believe she is afraid of being hurt again because the last girl she opened up to walked all over her!!! help me please what do i do?
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (27 October 2007):
 hi meforu.
what a situation you have put yourself into, she could only be messing you about to see how far she can go with you, or it could be the weed thats damaged her remaining brain cells,or maybe she does fancy you, the only way to find out is, if you like her as much as she likes you, and showing you affection, as she is, when she get in your face at very close range, grab her and kiss her face off, just to see how she reacts to you, then you will know one way or the other, it is no good for you to keep panicking as you seem to keep doing, and putting your blood pressure through the roof every 15 seconds, you should sort this out once and for all.
t.t.f.n.
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