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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: I just split up with my boyfriend and i have been in touch with a lad from school who i always had a soft spot for but we were good friends. We have just been talking and he was someone who didnt no my ex so it was nice to talk. im not ready for a relationship and wont for a long time and he isnt but we have started talking about meeting up for no strings sex just between the 2 of us. Do you think it is wrong?
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reader, hmm... +, writes (29 October 2007):
What do you want in life? I mean in future? Would you like to have a boyfriend that is realy a fantastic man? The one that you respect? The one that is THE MAN! Would you like to meet that big love of your life? Would you like to experience deep love and attachment to somebody who you can trust and who has his life in order and knows how to lead????Does this behaviour of yours lead you to that person? Would person like that involve with somebody who solves relationship wounds with fuck buddy?Think strategicaly! Go for what you want, not for what's offered! That's the only way to be happy in life!Relationships are not much different from school or job. You have to know what you want and do what it takes to get it!I say go over your previous relationship and find new boyfriend. it will take time but you will be happier.good luck what ever you do...
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2007): i dont think it is wrong because if u really love this guy you should have sex! but remember sex isn't everything so be careful
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female
reader, jodie +, writes (27 October 2007):
if ur both agreein on it then y not! ur both havin fun, both happy, both gettin wat u want! there might be a point wen u both decide u want eachother and want a real relationship with eachother but until then hope u have fun and have a good time! gd luck! luv me x if u wanna chat u no i'm here to help
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reader, love-him +, writes (27 October 2007):
Hey babe, it is dangerous in some ways, because there is always a chance one of you or both of you will fall for each other. However, if you both agree with it, and make sure it is ok, then it sounds alright :) have fun :) mail me if you would like to talk x
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