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male
age
41-50,
*onero
writes:Hello sir, thanks very much for the oportunity geven to me to express my feelings.my question, please am from west africa nigeria, am a very honest young man. but because of the bad reputation of my country people, i find it very difficult to find a relationshep abroad. the reason i need a relationshep abroad is because, of the bad name that is associated with my country. i sincerely need a apartner that can help me settle and live the rest of my life in abroad. so i can raise my children in a good atmosfair. please what do i do? kindly help me.thanks tony. Reply to this Question
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reader, Be a good man  +, writes (2 November 2007):
 First of all, I should say sorry to you,because my English is not very well ,so I cannot understand your meaning completely. Here ,I will tell you some ideas that I think.In my opinion ,you need not worry about it,no matter which country you are from ,people do not care about that very much,the most important thing is yourself,you should be a good man! And if I were you ,I will leave the country too,but I won't worry about whether people can accept me,because I am a good boy,I will care about my job ,I need to find a job first!
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reader, Oblivia  +, writes (27 October 2007):
 There might be dating agencies you can use. I think the best thing for you to do though is to get a job in an international company and from there get a change to be placed in an office abroad. If you don't already have a good education, get one. Examples of good international areas could be software engineering, economy or law studies. There will be international student's associations to join if you study and if you do post graduate studies you might get the chance to get a post doc abroad. If you don't have these possibilities you can look for other international organisations such as sports or aid organisations. That way you will meet lots of people in the international arena and maybe you won't even think you want to get involved with someone just to get out, you will think you are already out by your own merits and now you can look for someone to love, Nigerian or other, whatever makes you and her happy together.
I hope you will have a good life!
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