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writes:I really have feeling im comunicating with my comp.or books..Its not that im not trying to do it with people,i have much aquantiances and friends but every time I want to express my feelings thoughts or whatever,im put in the position of listening other people concerns,and their problems,instead of mine.I dont mind it but How can i made people listen at me,at once completely, without interupting and changing the subcejt to their own worries?? Im good listener and advice giver but when it comes to me,seems others think i have no worries at all or whatever. Im sorry this is not about love ralated issue,but any help and direction would be appriciated. Thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question I m regarding them as aquantiances..since i dont think any real friend will overload u with his/her problems not having into consideration that u might have also urs ..
Guess i have to move on and try to find a more listenable friends, or at least some that do not torment other ppl with their worries and if so at least to have a sense for reciprocity... Thank you for answering, i hope u share the opinion that im on good track
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reader, LULU'S Advice  +, writes (8 December 2007):
 Do you have any close friends or just a lot of aquaintances.You could try joining a group of some sort or maybe even starting a group yourself.It does seem sometimes as though no one hears you but I suppose people are so tied up in their own problems that they forget that the pewrson their off loading onto may need to talk as well.I think also you should take it as a compliment that people feel they can talk to you and value your opinions. xx
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reader, agony anuts rubby +, writes (8 December 2007):
 If you are a happy person when you are round other's they automatically think you have no worry's.try talking to some one you really can trust and get on well with .when its all quite ask them if you can talk to them.some people find it hard to talk so they write it down on some paper and it make's them feel a bit better.or some people don't no how to talk but they want to when they try and talk they cont get out what they want to say so they also write on a bit of paper and give it to the person they want to talk to. you may find it a bit odd but try it ,it really do's help.if this do's not work then give me a reply and i will try and help some more well good luck with everything.rubbyxx
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