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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2007): My now husband left his wife of 19 years to be with me. They have two teenage kids. He never cheated on her and their marriage was miserable. He was unhappy for 15 years but tried to raise his kids. So why not leaving to have a 2nd chance at being happy. We're now married and he is the most wonderful man I could imagine. I totally respect and love him. I have no feelings toward his ex wife who is a complete nutcase. Now that I met her I am seriously wondering why he did not leave her much earlier. One of the kids even wants to live with us now because she is crazy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou. That what I thought too. Just wanted to make sure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2007): Unavailable men are hot. Available men are not so hot. Available losers who have to pay child support are not hot at all. Not sure what turns other women on. I personally like men who know what they are doing in their lives every step of the way.
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reader, duskyrowe  +, writes (9 December 2007):
 Men that leave their wife and family for another woman are dispicable rats and are very much likely to do the same to their mistresses when a new and younger model comes along. These guys are insecure about themselves, simply because they want to still be seen as attractive and can still pull the birds to prove themselves.
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reader, pgissyd +, writes (9 December 2007):
 insecure, always waiting for that guy to cheat on them too. Total lack of trust.
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