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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I started dating my ex 2 years ago, and we had a relationship for about a year. I screwed things up and then we were together on and off for another year. The thing is, i am always falling for her. Recently we kissed at a party and then she told me the next day about 'the other guy'. I told her how much i think about her but i don't think she really took it in. She keeps telling me about how he's going to take her on a date to a musical soon and be all romantic, but then everyone i know says she still has feelings for me and everyone i know says she flirts with me all the time.I don't know if im being blind to this, or if i'm just trying not to notice. I mean i enjoy the attention, but then one of my close friends tells me that she is obviously using me as a safety net. I've told my ex that i still love her, and that we should get back together, but she just goes off to discuss it with her friends and never comes back.Is she just using me? and how do i tell her that i don't want her to go with this other guy. Help! I love her!
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reader, DxRad711  +, writes (9 December 2007):
 I have definatly been in your possision! i'm sorry to say you are pretty much being used. shes using you as a rebound and thats not fair to you!
its seems as though you dont want to let her go and if i told you, you shouldn't take her back, its not going to be what you want. but you really have to ask yourself...are you happy.
face even if you are together can you really trust her to not flirt with other guys? and would she treat you the way she should?
maybe its just that i dont know much about your relationship with her but i hope i helped a little :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2007): No offense but you arent anyone to tell her she cant go out with another guy. She is moving on and maybe you should to. It can be that she may stil have feelings for you but she isnt letting it get into her way of living on her own. Maybe you should start dating other people and give love another try. She is your ex for a reason. As hard as it may be, walk away from all this.
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reader, KeRrI117 +, writes (8 December 2007):
 I think you are trying to hard to notice and because your trying to hard your thinking about the things u want and missing what is really happening. You could talk to her and tell her how you feel but you cant tell someone that you dont want them to be with someone it just makes things worse. You will never no if shes useing you untill you no how she feels so if your that in love with her ask her how she feels about you and find out whats the worst that could happen?....
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