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writes:there is a guy whom i love like mad...he really cares for me..but he says love is too complicated for him...n says i'll b his best friend forever...do you think that he will fall in love with me some day...
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008): Why should you make him your priority when he sees you as an option? Get over it. When a guy is into you and wants to be with you, he will pursue you. He'll call you all the time, tell you that he's thinking of you. He'll ask you to be his girlfriend, and he'll tell his friends about you. He will constantly tell you how beautiful you are and buy you gifts. He will not ever tell you that you are just friends. Stop hanging on to false hope. Wake up! When a guy is into you, there is nothing that's going to stop him from pursuing a serious relationship. Sometimes it's not the right time e.g. You're both in medical school and you both need to wait until you graduate or something like that. Listen to me carefully. You need to move on to someone who wants to be your true love. If he hasn't communicated to you clearly that he's going to consider you one day, then there's your big hint.
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reader, cool guy +, writes (9 December 2007):
Tell him, and give him some time for it to sink down. I suspect, he too has feelings for you. Lets see what happens.
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reader, cool guy +, writes (9 December 2007):
Tell him, and give him some time for it to sink down. I suspect, he too has feelings for you. Lets see what happens.
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (9 December 2007):
 Stranger things have happened.
My wife is my best friend.
Give it some time and just see where this goes.
Sure, it just may be that you will never be more than friends but you must always become a friend to someone before they know if they like you enough to have a romantic relationship with you.
Some relationships take a little longer to grow than others.
So hang in there and see what comes. Doc
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2007): Telling you that you'll be his best friend forever, is a good indicator that he's not interested in a love relationship. So why are you in love with a guy who told you he's not available to date you? That seems like a losing proposition to me and a waste of time. Try to get over him and work on becoming strong within yourself in order to become clear on what type of bf you do want, someday. Preferably one that is available to you and wants to date YOU. Try not to get stuck on liking guys who are unavailable. Good luck.
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reader, alieP91  +, writes (9 December 2007):
 Some day he might but i wouldn't push him into it cos thats where people make so many mistakes.
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Sit him down just you and him and tell him, then give him sometime to get used to it then have another talk.
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reader, GreenTea +, writes (9 December 2007):
I do.
I firmly believe that guys dont really have girls who they plan to just keep as "friends"
Think about it. Guys are simple. Girls are not.
Girls are friends with guys because they like to be around a simple relationship. you can understand us.
Why would a guy want to hang around with a bunch of girls who make everything complicated when he could just hang around with guys. Thats right, he sees you as possibly more than a friend.
Unless he is already taken... Or a homosexual.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2007): Maybe it isnt the right moment for him to fall in love. I am noone to say that he will fall in love with you or not but what i do know is that only time can tell. Seems to me that he is afraid of getting hurt, therefore he trys to block any feeling and emotion that may seem to get close to the word " love". Stick by his side and be his best friend. Only time can determine otherwise.
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