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writes:my bf and i broke up(long distance of 300 miles he 20 been together 4 months knew each other for another 8), we both found it very hard and he said he wants to be friends but a day later he asked me back out again i told him i dont think now is that right time and that maybe we shouldnt fone one another for a while till i figure things out. We still talk through msn and he says he still loves me and misses me and that he's still got pics of me in his room and all the stuff i got him. I foned him and asked what exactly we were doing and he said break/pause which i think is fine but i dont know exactly what is involved in this, are we friends or more but just not seenin one another? this mean we cant see other people or not? i really want to give him another chance but i know my family are totally against this so do i not fone him for a while and then tell them we decided on a break? i know they will they will try to control my relationship but i need to let them make my own decisions and mistakes how do i get them to see this? they jsut dont see the man i fell in love with what can i do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008): when i read your problem i couldnt understand it lol but i got what you are saying.i know what you mean.i think that you should get over him.i mean his just playing you,his saying he wants to be just friends and the next day he wants you again,his playing with your mind and heart which is really wrong.i think that you should just forget him,change your number if you have to,i meaan it depends if you still love him sometimes love is blind and you think your in love but you really arnt which is where you probably are at.dont get me wrong but i think you should just forget him seriously dont waist your time with that guy.that doesnt even know what he wants
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reader, lil-angel182 +, writes (9 December 2007):
lil-angel182 is verified as being by the original poster of the question i want to tell them but will probably wait a while for them to calm down but what if they decided that i'm not allowed to see him? i really dont want to be sneaking around their backs?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2007): To be honest it sounds like you two guys both want to be together, and i can understand the long distance issues as i was in a long distance relationship for the last 2 years, yes it's difficult but if you both want it enough it'll work.As for the family issue, you really need to just tell them honestly how you're feeling that you appreciate their concern but like you said you need to make your own decisions/mistakes in life.They may disapprove but they're your family and i guarantee that they'll stand by you 100%Good luck and i genuinely hope everything works out for you.
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