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anonymous
writes:Met this guy a little over a year ago, became friends, then lovers about 4 months ago. He said if he got feelings he would cut them off. I never asked anything of him as we are both married. Never said love but both say there are emotions involved. At 1st he did everything to cover his himself from getting caught. Now, he is trying to bring his wife around me. He told her he is calling me for business-which could be true as he is looking to start one. Confused because he called me for other reasons before but now its this. Everyday now he calls. We are really close when we talk and are around each other to the point where others have asked what is going on. He could get caught by his own actions. He speaks to her about me. I dont want her wondering about me. Question is- why would he do this? And is he using me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2007): I see that your the biggest user in this relationship. Whats the problem - don't you want to get caught???? He can and as you does what suits him. I think he is trying to get caught and he is going to take you right along with him. This honestly, makes me smile! What a tangled web we weave AH!!
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reader, eddie  +, writes (8 December 2007):
 Actually maybe you're using each other. Why are you playing this silly game and why do you feel your feelings deserve respect? There is no honor among thieves and although you're not technically thieves, you are stealing another persons happiness. (his wife...your husband)
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