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writes:i have recently broke up with my boyfriend and ive become really good friends with his best friend, he has also just broke up with someone so he can understand what i am going through but i KNOW i have fallen for him, he has just got together with someone and they basically have a dead relationship, i think the guy who ive fallen for knows and feels the same just scared to tell me, last night we went out me him and his ex we ot drunk as you do and he was allover his ex i was like what the hell you doing? i took him outside and told him to behave himself, since ive been friends with him all i hear is about how bad his relationship with ex was, back to the story he started crying when i told him what he was doing i felt really sorry for him, i managed to cheer him up tho ( basic hug and reassurance )a bit later on when we got a bit drunker we went inside and no one was in so we just listerned to music for a while then when his ex went up the stairs he started kissing me, at this point i was like what are you doing?! ur with someone!!! so i pushed him away again and he got very emotional yet again so i reassured him again but then he kissed me again it was like he cant take no for a answer! so i told him to go get a drink of water or somthing, his ex walked back into the room and i started talking to her and i found out that she still loves him and she doesnt know how to get over him, i told her if she wants to get over him being around him and letting him sex you up wont do any good! and that she told me ok and asked me to push him away if he trys it again then like 10 minutes later they were kissing! i pushed him away a few time then she took him into another room at this point i was furious! because his ex has just started a relationship with someone too i put a stop to them kissing and we just went our seprate ways, i have thought about telling him about how much he has messed with my head but i dont know how to say it, it feels like im going to be stuck in the middle allover again! help please xx
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reader, muffy  +, writes (11 December 2007):
 ok hunny, that really sux! but you have to know that he was drunk and you dont really know what your doing when your drunk. let him know what he did and tell him how you feel. tell him hes messing with your head but be nice. talk to his ex! tell her that its wrong to do that when shes dating someone else. talk to your ex boyfriend about what his friend did. maybe he can help but make sure you let him know in some sort of way or dont see him anymore cuz it could lead to mental problems if it gets to you badly. believe me ive bin there and done that and its not fun. I cut myself and screamed and threw things and just went crazy but it doesn't help so let him know and be careful ok.:)
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