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anonymous
writes:i was only been with this guy for 3 weeks then we split up,but i cant stop thinking about him,even tho ive not heard anything from him him since we split i really want to text him,is this a good idea or not?
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reader, 05hughesk +, writes (7 September 2008):
 The best thing to do is leave it .. if it did mean anything he will come back to you. Or if you do decide to text him just tell him how you feel .. he could feel something for you but might think you dont feel the same way ?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2007): To the bgagirl question nothing really happened i had not seen him in a few days and i texted saying if we could meet i then had a txt saying that nothing would happen and i just sit there when im around his ie not having sex yet,and that we should just be mates
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2007): As Bgagirl says, text him to put him to the test. Something light and fun. Not too flirty. See what happens. If you get an answer ...great! If not, don't be disheartened..try to move on. I want to say, that often if a guy is interested still, he will text a female....a lot. Guys who really like girls, want to contact, be it text, emails, phoning. This guy is not doing that. I would suggest you refrain from texting him. It's really, really likely if you haven't heard from him, he's moved on. And I think you should do the same.
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reader, alieP91  +, writes (9 December 2007):
 Yes txt him, tell him how you feel! IF you hold things in for to long your just going to do something that you'll take for a freaking BIG mistake later in life.
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reader, bqagirl2692  +, writes (9 December 2007):
 Im not quite sure why the both of you have split up, therefore i cant determine whether it would be a good idea to txt, but just so that the urge and curiosity would stop killing you, send him a little message. A message asking how are things with him. NOTHING ELSE! If he responds then respond back. You should explain why the both of you have split up. It'l be a little easier to determine if its a good idea or not.
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reader, GreenTea +, writes (9 December 2007):
No. Stay strong. If you text him your braking down.
Your gonna do whatever you feel is right. If you text him your not going to get over him any sooner. And your just going to hurt more.
Or you can text him, and take a chance.
Just make a choice and go with it. And realize that you cant change your decision after you did it. So be happy about it. :)
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