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*oni.911
writes:I've been going out with my boyfriend for about year and a half. I recently caught him flrting with girls online, he said he was sorry and did not know why he did it, he said he was really stupid because he did not gain anything from it, and he deleted his online account and gave me the password to his e-mail accounts.Should i 4give him or not? I really love him and he has always been there for me.
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (9 December 2007):
 This could have been all in fun.
Unless he gives you any further reason to distrust him I cannot think of any reason not to forgive him and dismiss the incident.
If this was a continual problem that would be another problem entirely.
He is obviously willing to put it behind him or he would not have dumped his accounts. Doc
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reader, kenny +, writes (8 December 2007):
 Ok he has apologised and he has deleted all his accounts, so on this occasion i would be inclined to forgive him. But if you ever find he has started it up again then i would not forgive him a second time.
All the best x
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2007): I can understand why you would be unhappy with him but if he has apologised and deleted his accounts I would give him a second chance. Although it's upsetting for you, he may have felt it was just a bit of fun. He was silly to think that but give him another go and make sure he understands there will be no more chances if he does it again.
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