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writes:i m 23 years old.my hight is 5'.3" n my weight is 45 kg.i m slim smart girl.i m going to get married but i m woorried about my figure...........acctually i hav small brest,my bra size is 32,i hav to use paded bra 34.i m worried will my husband like m figure with small brest?is it ok occording to my body?or i have to develop my brest?2ndly i know about brest developing creams but i m not sure about that kind of things it may cause of infaction.........?pls tell me i m so worriedi want to hav a wonderful wedding nite without any worries........
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reader, soni.911  +, writes (8 December 2007):
 i believe u shud confront him about the way u feel, if u two are gona gt married, then he must like u for who u are, u need to be happy with ur body,
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reader, Samutsen  +, writes (8 December 2007):
 I personally dislike big breasts. I like it smaller and I also like petite women. I am certain there millions out there whose tastes are like mine. And your future husband I am sure has already noticed everything about you even though you might not be aware of this. And one more thing if you yourself feel shy or embarresed about your body or anything about yourself you willbe telling the people around you there is something wrong with you, really. But even if you had a defect and you are still proud and confident of yourself, you would have manipulated them to percieve you as you feel what you are. So show up with your natural, nude body before your husband to make love be proud and confident about it and make your husband feel that way also.PS I had many girl friends with small, very small breasts (I did not choose them for their small breasts though) even if I found some extremely small I did not mind it and I never told them and I never left them for this reason anyway.
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reader, Megan Deetes +, writes (8 December 2007):
 You'll be fine if he really loves you he won't mind anyway-you're really not missing out with having smaller breasts!Padded bras are fine and you can even buy bras with special gel filling inside to maximise what you already have.Do not buy the wrong size bra though because this can damage your breasts and even in some cases badly fitted bras can effect your breast tissue.You can buy underwear that will flatter your body shape without too much padding so when your husband sees you in your underwear the colour and shape of the underwear will flatter you and this will not be a problem- i found a website with a useful guide as for what underwear to buy but remember that your confidence is the key to being beautiful and sexy and that is what your husband will want :) http://www.nzgirl.co.nz/articles/6097Anya also takes questions onthis website so if you can't find what your looking for you can e-mail her personally :)Good Luck and feel free to message me if you need more help :) xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2007): If you've presented a false image of your breast size to your future husband, and if he has not seen your naked breasts yet, he might feel rather cheated on your wedding night!
Your height and weight ratio is about as perfect as it gets, in UK terms 5'3" and just over 7 stones in weight and I would guess about a size 8. As far as breast size is concerned, any more than a mouthful is wasted anyway.
There was recently a TV programme here that concerned women considering breast enlargement and breast reduction operations. One girl who was intending to have implants thought she had an 'A' cup but was in fact a 'D' cup and decided her breasts were OK after all!
Get yourself properly measured by a professional to find your correct bra size - it might not be what you think it is!
Phil
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2007): hey hun!from your post, i'm guessing that your going to have an arranged marriage. you figure sounds amazing and your bra size sounds perfectly normal and your husband's gonna be one lucky man!breast enhancing creams are nothing but a con... don't try them, they will probably do more harm than good... there's no way that you can grow your breasts without having cosmetic surgery. i would not advise surgery as you may regret it afterwards.as for your first night... well talk to your future husband about birth control, if you do not want to get pregnant. you could use a condom, or, if it is available in your country, The Pill. Secondly, take things slowly, maybe set the mood with candles and soft lighting... start off with kissing and caressing your husband and if he's not doing something quite right, then gently guide him. the rest will come naturally, trust me :)hope this helped! xxx
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reader, rcn  +, writes (8 December 2007):
 I wouldn't worry about your figure. Your getting married to the whole person and so is he. If I really love someone, their figure would not be an issue because they're so much more than just the physical looks. I'd be marrying for who they are totally and not just part of them.
According to your body size, I believe your beast size is good.
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