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writes:my ex husband and i still sleep together.He says he remarried for spite and does not love her what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007): I am in the same boat. My ex-husband just contacted me about a month ago. We have already met once and plan on meeting again next week. He is married and has a 14 year old daughter. I don't believe he loves his wife...as they had to marry shortly after our divorce because she was pregnant. He loves kids.... his wife doesn't. She doesn't want anymore and doesn't get involved in much that he or their daughter do. He wants to have children with me, although he hasn't said much about leaving his wife and having a life with me. I think we would end up together if I should say yes and have children for him. I still love him ... we just married to young. I was only 17... we never had children together ... I have no children of my own.. I really want to have his children but it's really a tough decision for me.... I wish you luck and if you both truly love one another... it will happen... If it's meant to be... it will be ...
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2007): You should ask yourself why you want to have anything to do with a man who would marry someone out of spite. Think about how much you would be hurt if someone married you "out of spite" and did not even love you, now seriously is this the type of man you can trust? If someone is cruel to another human being but nice to you, they are a cruel person. The end.
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reader, Silence is Golden  +, writes (3 April 2007):
i am a bit confused here. So apart from sleeping with you, does he want to get back into a relationship with you and leave his wife? or is this just based on sex, in which case you are being used.
Sorry if that sounds rather harsh.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2007): Stop sleeping with him for a start. By sleeping with him not only is he cheating on his wife with you it's stopping you from finding a man which you would like to settle down and be with the rest of your lives plus you could end up having feelings for your ex-husband all over again. He might be lying about not loving his wife and just telling you so that you carry on the affair with him. And even if he decided to leave his wife for you what's to say that your relationship will be happy this time round. Move on from your ex and find a man who is free and single plus hasn't already been with you.
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