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female
age
36-40,
*irlwithchoices
writes:I have been told that the regular swearing, sarcasm ect, even if I have made a mistake or upset my partner is abuse and not normal. It has allways upsett me and now Im looking to improve our relationship and us both as individuals. Im attending councelling and on meds, for myself I'd like some tips on remembering specifics from converstaion. Im most intersted in some tips to reduce the expolsions of emotion my partner has and close the gap between the extremes ie Love you v I wish Id never met you, I had a brilliant day, and a lovely evening with my kids v Im a failiure at everything even my kids don' like me....I'd like us to have a calm, respectful, equal relationship with will stand the test of time. Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (29 July 2008):
If he's suddenly exploding then there is nothing you can do to stop it... But he can go and get anger management which will help him to count to 10 etc and not do that.
Has he been to see anyone about his mood swings? It sounds like he really should.
If you both get help and try hard then yes, you can have that loving relationship, but as they say, it takes 2 to tango.
Good Luck!! xx
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