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*ebblesxx
writes:Does any one know what causes you to dry up during intercourse?? i used to have such a high sex drive when about 4 years ago but all of a sudden i started to go dry, and i mean dry as a towel,and no matter how i try icant enoy sex anymore. I dont get in the moods easily, at all, havent orgasmed!!! can anyone tell me how to stop the dryness. i do use lubes hiwever oter wise i get friction burns!! im only 25 so its not like i should ave reached my prime n passed it yet is it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2007): Hello Pebbles,
At least you still desire to have a sexual relationship, my wife has lost the desire completely, she won't even discuss our sex life. So I would suggest you talk with your partner, this alone may help, it is obviously stressing you out. Remove the stress, remove the dryness.
Order a free sample of this cream! http://www.sylk.co.uk/
It is a completely natural product.
All the best
Alan
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reader, pebblesxx +, writes (10 April 2007):
pebblesxx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all for your help! i will take on board ur responses, and if i come up with a quick fix ill holla at ya!!
do you know the names of theses vaginal creams? how they work and where to get em?? i dnt wanna check online cos my partener will know what ive been looking at!! hes not fully aware of the extgent of the problem, as i usually go n sneak some liube when hes not looking!! lol...its a shem for me innit?? its not i dnt trust him i just dont want him to think its him cos it happened sin ce before we were together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2007): This is exactly what's happening to me right now. I'm 25 as well and it's seriously straining my relationship. I've gone to the doctor and there's nothing wrong physically. I think it does have something to do with foreplay and I'm emotionally connected to sex. I need the cuddling and caressing. Replens was suggested to me as well, a vaginal moisturizer. It lasts a day or two so you don't need to use it right before sex. If you come across the answer, let me know!
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reader, littlelady2007  +, writes (4 April 2007):
My question is; do you do any foreplay before sex? I try to, because I also tend to dry up quickly during sex if I don't. I'm only 20 and it sucks that I dry out so fast!!! But usually I have to get really worked in order not to have that problem occur during sex. Toys can be fun... and maybe he could rub your clit during sex? That can help with the dryness factor.
Or sex toys as another suggested can help.
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reader, girlwithchoices +, writes (3 April 2007):
Think you should see someone about it, I don't know much about it but sex drive is infulenced by lost of things-
mental health, hormones, phisical health. There is a sexual health clinic near me that is very good-its NHS,gives away lube ect and somewhere like that might have some answers or be able take a quick history and refer you to an opropriate Health care provider
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reader, Alli +, writes (3 April 2007):
 Hi there, i sometimes get like that, but only at certain times in the month. the best way is to experiment with toys, get yourself going, before you have sex with your partner explore yourself. But also go to the doctors explain about the lubes, and they can usual suggest something. i know there is a cream which is usual used by menopausal women, but if you ask it can be prescribed. If you havnt orgasimed deffintly invest in a good vibrator just to help you. hope that helps xx
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