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female
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36-40,
*ANDY.K
writes:Boyfriends over controled mother.me(20) and my boyfriend(22) are in a bad situation or may i say i am. my boyfriends mother doesnt like me at all and i dont no why she is like this to me. I was still a virgin when we met and she told him just the other night that i only use him for sex. And i tried to phone her to ask her why she was saying that but didnt answer the phone. Do you think i must carry on with this relationship or must i just leave it? and can mothers get jealous of their own sons girlfriend? and why did she say that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2007): Maybe it's because she's worried for her son that he's going to get used or maybe one of his other girlfriends in the past have used him for just sex. Get your boyfriend to explain to his mum that you are different. If he doesn't do that for you that he isn't worth it. Have a chat with his mum (i mean by being in the same room as her, not over the phone) and ask her why she fears that you are going to use her son for sex. If she tells you that it's happened before or it's happened to her you could admit that you are a virgin. She might think you are lying but at the end of the day it is her son's relationship, not her's and she shouldn't be interferring.
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reader, Having Problems???  +, writes (3 April 2007):
mothers can get jelous of their son's girlfriend relationship but you cannot break up because of her just tell your boyfriend that she's bothering you and you need to know that he doesn't believe her and if he doesn't then just ignore what she says and she will eventually be tired of making stupid excuses for no reason and give in to the fact that she cant always get her own way in meddeling with her sons relationship.
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