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writes:Hi I'm 19 years old and I've been in love with my cousin for so long. Ever since i wa 5 and he was 10. We were deeply in love until he was 15 and he started to change his way with me. That now we almost never talk! Every time i meet someone new i think i'm over my cousin but actually i'm not. Now i live in pain as i know that he has a girlfriend he's been with for 4 years and i can't stop loving him still!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2007): i agree with keria there is nothing wrong with it so i suggest you look at this as someone who is not your cosuin and as someone who you are hurting over. to me it seems that he is not interested so you need to move on and do what makes you happy
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reader, dollparts  +, writes (26 April 2007):
 Hun I'm so sorry you have to go through this and I know how it feels I really do but you need to move on I know thats not something you want to hear but its something that you need to do
hope all goes well for you =) xxxx
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reader, AdamPayseno  +, writes (25 April 2007):
 This is just one of them things that hurt dear..
Your going to have to swallow down and forget your childhood hero. He's moved on, it's time to do the same.
Good luck with finding new love.
It is out there.
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reader, Keria +, writes (25 April 2007):
I'm not sure what to say.
If you are looking for validation for loving your cousin, then I can tell you there is absolutely nothing wrong with cousins being in love, so long as they are consenting adults.
In your case, he is not consenting -- he has a girlfriend. Other than that, there isn't really much to say. Maybe you can tell him how you feel, and maybe he doesn't realize you feel that way, and if he knew he might leave his girlfriend for you. Other than that, you need to treat it as any other relationship where you love someone who is already taken.
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