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anonymous
writes: I'm going out with someone for about 6 months.The first 3 months we had a lot of sexy moments together. I'm about 80% sure that he likes me because he invites me to go out, he say nice things to me, frequently he calls me that he miss me and want to see me, but for about 3 months, we go out, we kiss each other, he touch me and kiss my nipples, but then he stops and looks for excuses. He doesn't look for sex. His behaviour is very HOT with me. He makes me wet, but that's all. What can be his problem?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2007): I would also just ask him how he feels about you and if there's a reason things have slowed down in the action department. I'm almost tempted to say if you're not even sure he likes you [80%] dump him; 6 mo is a long time to go when you're not even sure they're liked
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2007): Maybe he's actually gay?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2007): I'm the person who wrote about this problem.I just want to explain, that i still don't understand.He is not virgin, because he has a child.I have a child too. He is not shy, because we have had sex before. About a month or 2. It's just the last months that everything has stopped. But he is still sweet to me. He is sweeter than ever before. WHAT CAN BE THE PROBLEM?????? :(
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reader, Keria +, writes (26 April 2007):
Maybe out of respect to you, he doesn't want to go further... he's maybe waiting for you to make further moves on him. Why not become more agressive, and start the moves?
On the other hand, he might believe that sex is for marriage only. Why not ask him?
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reader, lupa-k +, writes (26 April 2007):
Perhaps he is uncomfortable about sex, or maybe thinks that you are that. Have you talked to him about past sexual encounters he has had? Its possible he might be inexperienced so you need to create a situation where he feels comfotable talking to you about this. From there, maybe you could take the initiative, explain to him what you want to happen and convince him of how important he is to you
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reader, XXpussycatXX +, writes (26 April 2007):
hya hun
he prob like this because he may be thinking that you dont want it to go any further even though you have been having sexy moments and he is prob shy so speak to him and see what he says
hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2007): maybe he`s a bit shy because he`s a virgin
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