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writes:My girlfriend and I have been together for 7 years with a one year break up. We were getting ready to be engaged, and an ex called and says she comes over to our place when my girlfriend is not there. She broke up with me and says its over. I have had my fair share of mistakes but never cheated. How do I get her back and can she trust me again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2007): If your gf believes that you have never cheated then you really need to talk to her and explain the your ex is a complete bitch that's not to be trusted. If you gf trusts, and has always trusted you then she will be willing to take your word on it.
However, to me it sounds as if your gf is scared and is looking for any excuse to run... you really need to talk to her and ressure her that you love her and that you truly want to be with her. She may just be looking for an easy way put of the realtionship... you and your gf need to sit down and be 100% honest to resolve this issue and to move forward.
Should you cross the path of your ex in the near future you really should ignore he if you can and put her where she belongs to be ... in the past............
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reader, penta +, writes (25 April 2007):
 Wow. Your ex is a real bitch. Can you find out why she did this to you? Any chance you can get her to call your gf and own up to the lie?
Trust is really hard to get back once it's lost. And it's just wrong that you don't deserve this.
If you can't get your ex to own the lie, my best advice is to try to get your gf to talk with you. Remain calm. Try to tell her that your ex lied, and see if you can find ANY proof.
If I were your gf, I might be willing to believe she lied, but there would always be something in the back of my head wondering. I'm so sorry I don't have anything better for you.
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