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I'm jealous and stressed that she's talking to guys online! What should I do?

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Question - (25 April 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2007)
A male Trinidad and Tobago age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My girlfriend and i have been together for over and things have been mostly great. We have had our share of ups and downs but always manage to work them out. the thing is..lately shes been going online a lot and chatting with other guys. Maybe i'm overreacting but im kinda jealous and a little worried about the whole thing.

Also she got upset when she asked me if i was jealous...not sad upset but more angry.

What do u think i should do?

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A female reader, mcbirdie United Kingdom +, writes (26 April 2007):

mcbirdie agony auntI think you should talk to her, but also, I think you should stop expecting that just because she is dating you that she doesn't need other friends--including male friends.

If my boyfriend got outrageously jealous without cause with me, it would likely make me angry too. No one likes to be accused of something they haven't done. And unless you have a reason to suspect infidelity other than her chatting online, you are being a bit unfair to her.

Sit her down when you aren't upset and ask her what she is getting from the guys she chats with and whether she is completely happy with your relationship. Listen to her response, rather than suspecting the worst.

Best of luck.

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